Saturday, May 26, 2012

My baby's gone to Africa!

I was in shock when she told me last year.  Africa?  I know she hasn't had many foreign holidays, but really could she not have picked somewhere familiar, like France?  All sorts of horrible thoughts swirled around my brain, from tropical diseases to danger and back again via creepy bugs and dirty water.

But no, Angel and three of her friends had decided to try and make a difference to the lives of children living in an orphanage in southern Africa, by spending a month as volunteers for an Irish charity that works in the area.  Everyone I spoke to told me that she would be fine, and gradually I realised that this trip is something to celebrate: my Angel is spreading her wings.

So began months of planning and fund-raising.  Bags were packed, mass-goers were begged, quiz junkies were entertained, injections were borne, respectable clothes were bought, and every last detail checked and rechecked.  I let her at it.  Her organisational skills have always been excellent.  And she is a grown up after all.

The flight left at six this morning.  She left at four.  I did not need an alarm to wake me.  We sat in the hall, yawning, in peaceful silence, waiting for her lift to the airport.  Everything had been said.  And with one last hug and a few whispered words, she stepped out into the dark, dragging the suitcases behind her.

When I came down this morning, there were two notes on the kitchen table, one for her brother and one for me.

"Please try not to worry," she wrote, and promised to get in touch when she could.

I think she's ready for this and I think she'll do just fine.  But roll on the end of June...

26 comments:

  1. It's going to seem like a long month but it's the same 30 days as it always is. We'll be here if you need to chat. Good luck.

    Angel, on the other hand, is going to have the time of her life!

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  2. @midlife Singlemum - thank you, and yes, I'm sure she is!

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  3. Also I realise that some of this was mentioned earlier in the year, but I couldn't let the occasion go by unmentioned, or without explanation for those who just pop by occasionally...

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  4. She's arrived safely! Just got a text :D

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  5. She'll be fine... and you'll give her a big hug when she'll be back in a month. You will have much to talk about! x

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  6. Had a tear in my eye and a lump in my throat reading that this morning - especially the two notes!! What a girl you have there, which isn't surprising looking at her mum.

    She will have an amazing time and can't wait to hear about it. Big hugs in the meantime, Hxxx

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  7. @claire hatcher - Yes I think so :)

    @Petra Rovere - I know and I can't wait to see the photos :) x

    @Helen - she's come a long way from that cute toddler you played football with :) xxx

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  8. You must be so proud of her.

    Aud xx

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  9. @Aud - Oh I am :))) Thanks so much for commenting xx

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  10. Blue Sky, what an exciting adventure for Angel! She will be fine! :)
    Don't forget, they are always welcome here if they decide to a bit of extra travelling!! xx

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  11. It will be amazing for her but i totally get your worries..my girl is planning to go to south America ... an how I worry, she is not even gone yet.
    They grow up so very fast.

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  12. Oh wow, that is really something to be proud of. I hope she has a marvellous time, it will be really life shaping for her.(and character building for you! lol).

    Mich x

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  13. You must be really proud and yet you wish she would stay safely at home. But this will be a great experience for her and she be having another home cooked meal soon while chatting at the table and telling you all about it! ;)

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  14. I'm not surprised you call her Angel. You are such a lucky mum (but maybe luck has nothing to do with it).
    She sounds like an amazing young woman XXX

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  15. She will be fine. She will have a great adventure, do wonderful things and make you extremely proud.

    xx

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  16. What an amazing adventure and memory making opportunity! And what a wonderful mum you are to have raised a daughter who has the desire and drive to do something this amazing! She will be back before you know it with a bucketful of stories to share with you.x

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  17. @The Bright Side of Life - I'll let her know, good to know someone a bit closer :) xx

    @Þorgerður - It's great that your girl is already planning her big adventure :)

    @Michelle Twin Mum - A bit worried about the character-building bit, Mich lol x

    @Puzzled - that's it, exactly. And yes, I'd say she'll be looking for her usual roast dinner on the day she come home...

    @Jean - I think she's lovely ... but I do write mainly about the good bits here! xxx

    @Very Bored in Catalunya - So long as it's only wonderful things she does :) xx

    @Lynsey S - Yes, I can't wait to hear the stories and see the photos x

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  18. Wow such an amazing life changing opportunity for her.
    Will chew nails nervously waiting for updates xxxx

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  19. I'm sure she will have a great time but I know a bit of what you're feeling. My eldest has just announced that she wants to do a voluntary placement in Japan. Deb x

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  20. @theaandnatesmum - NO! Don't chew your nails, they'll look as bad as mine, if you do that :) xxxx

    @Deb - my son wants to go to Japan too! X

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  21. Oh dear - I have this to come next year when my, then, 15 year old goes to Tanzania with World Challenge! I feel your pain!
    Tania

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  22. @Tania - I saw the first photos today, Angel and her pals are having a great time and sure your 15 year old will too!

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  23. It's such an amazing thing she is doing, you must be so proud. I'm sure the time will fly and she'll be back home with you xx

    p.s. Just on a blog catch-up if you hadn't guessed ;)

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  24. It's such an amazing thing she is doing, you must be so proud. I'm sure the time will fly and she'll be back home with you xx

    p.s. Just on a blog catch-up if you hadn't guessed ;)

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  25. @Heather - you are very good to catch up on the reading, I never seem to find the time to catch up on old posts too :)

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