Friday, July 6, 2012

Africa through my daughter's eyes


Under the cloudy Tanzanian sky two football teams are playing on a dry and dusty pitch.  The white lines are barely visible, but the children are all smiles, energy and enthusiasm, and the game barely pauses as a motor bike roars down the road that runs through the middle of pitch, belching black smoke in all directions...

Of all the stories that Angel brought back from volunteering trip to Africa with an Irish charity, this is the one that stuck in my head.   And there were a lot of stories.

When she arrived home last week, the words just tumbled out.  From the long flight after I waved her off in the middle of the night to a very happy reunion in Dublin airport a month later, there was a lot to tell!

Stories of airports that had never seen an e-ticket, luggage that disappeared for a week, hanging onto the sides of overcrowded buses, cheap diesel fumes clogging the air, and that was just the transport.

Angel and three of her friends stayed in a well-appointed hostel, they even had some access to broadband. The food was good and plentiful, but the water was not.  All drinking water was bottled, there was no washing machine and the shower was just a trickle, so clothes and skin needed lots of cleaning when they returned home.  Even Western-style toilets were rare, apart from the hostel and a handful of the restaurants.

In the mornings they headed across town to the orphanage and school.  It could be an interesting journey as the terrain was tricky, with pot holes and open man hole covers at every turn, mud and dust and piles of burning rubbish outside the low-rise buildings.  Bizarrely the street signs were all sponsored by Coca Cola.


All the children were eager to learn and interested in everything their visitors could share.  They spoke in Swahili and Angel's sentences are still peppered with words that she absorbed.  I'm actually not sure who learned the most!  Did you know that there are 15 different varieties of bananas?  And that Tanzanian oranges are green?  That caused lots of confusion when trying to teach English to the children.


After a late lunch the girls helped the kids with their football training and matches, but only till around 6, when dusk begins. It is pitch black by 6.30.  Their evening were spent eating and playing cards.

The friends also squeezed in a couple of touristy trips too, a safari and a jungle trek.  All of them had an amazing time and are vowing to return again next year.



And Angel? Well she left Ireland as a teenager, and returned as a confident young woman.  More helpful and more thoughtful.  She's questioning the life that we take for granted, and the stuff that we think we need.  Like milk frothers.

"They don't worry so much in Africa," she says, "they just soak up the joy of living."

There's a lesson in that for all of us.  Perhaps I should go there too... 

19 comments:

  1. What an amazing experience for your daughter to see how others live and experience a different country. One that is so different from all the luxuries we are used to. Your daughter sounds remarkable and wise beyond her years.

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  2. Great photos & an amazing experience. These children could teach us all a lesson or two. I think if I looked at these photos when I'm a bit down it would pick me right up again!!! :)

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  3. I am glad she had a great time. It just goes to prove that we never stop learning from new experiences.

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  4. Africa will stay with her forever. It's amazing what poverty can teach us XXX

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  5. @Lizbeth - am very proud of her, but she has her moments too!

    @Puzzled - I wish I could have put up photos of all the smiling children, but of course I don't have te permission of their parents!

    @lyndylou - yep and that goes or parents too x

    @Jean - I agree, but as someone pointed out to me once, permanent poverty is a different thing altogether xxx

    Thanks so much for these comments, and also for all the lovely comments on Facebook and Twitter xx

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  6. Fabulous post. She's a real credit to you that Angel. Be proud!

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  7. I really am so thrilled to hear that Angel had a positive experience, even though it must have been difficult to experience the poverty in Africa. If you do visit, make sure you come here as well! xx

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  8. @The Bright Side of Life - I would LOVE to come and visit xx

    @Floortime Lite Mama - Thank you x

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  9. Wow, what an incredible experience for her. I love the fact she's grown so much with her trip away. I so wish I had done something like this when I was younger. I think we all need a trip out there at some point - to be able to just soak up the joy of living must be amazing.

    xx

    p.s. 15 different varieties of banana? :-O

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  10. Its sounds amazing. What a great life experience for your daughter, you must be very proud of her.

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  11. @Heather Lucas - Yes, I am very glad she did it now :) And the banana thing is just mad! xx

    @Lisa Burns - It does :)

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  12. Amazing, how proud you must be. Sounds like a fantastic experience, I think all teenagers should have to do something similar!!! :D

    I wonder if the Coca Cola sponsorship has something to do with many of the charities that operate on the continent. Coca Cola opens up its distribution networks to some of them in charitable initiatives and partnerships that work to get water and medicines to hard to reach areas.

    God, that sounded like a PR piece. Found it out when one of my students was studying Coca Cola's marketing mix for a piece of coursework!

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  13. @Beadzoid - I think that you are probably correct that the Coca Cola sponsorship is a quid pro quo, and thanks for commenting once again :)

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  14. Fabulous story....brought a tear to my eye :-)

    xx Jazzy

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