Saturday, February 9, 2013

Do you visit the local library?


We rarely do.  It's probably yet another black mark against my parenting skills.  But I tried, I really did.

Inspired by childhood Saturday mornings spent trawling the shelves for something new, exciting and unread, and afternoons perched high in the branches of the tree at the corner of the garden head buried in my latest find, I did my best to pass on my love of books to my kids.

It didn't really work.

I have a house full of books, they've seen me read, I read to them religiously every night until they reached the age of 9 or 10.  I don't buy toys on request, but I will pay for any book if they promise to read it.  It wasn't enough.  Sadly I don't think that Smiley will ever read, but she has a good excuse, while my son and oldest daughter seem to find the on-line world more interesting.

I did try to interest them in the local libraries.  Sometimes they were open when we visited, sometimes the children borrowed books, but they often did not look at them.  I often wanted to order books, but that seemed to require 3 visits to the library, one to order the book, one to collect, and one to return it.  And you had to pay.  Downloading new titles is a much easier option for someone like me who has little spare time.

But there are plenty of people who DO have time on their hands.  I've seen some of them at the library: older people, young families bringing children in for story-telling,  middle aged people who are maybe out of work.  The library is a warm, safe place for them, to relax, to learn, to research, perhaps even to socialise.

Today is National Libraries Day in the UK and there is much wringing of hands about the closure of local libraries and a hollowing out of the services.  But perhaps libraries need to change, need to think about how they could change and adapt and fill gaps in services.

There's so much talk about the demise of the local pub, about the need for people to have somewhere to meet.  Why not add a social role to libraries, built around books?  Why not add a cafe and toilets, so that people could spend as much time as they wanted there.  If pubs are closing because of the drink driving laws, perhaps libraries could become a social hub for communities?  Tea, coffee, buns and books: that could work, couldn't it?  Keep the free wifi, and add a meeting room or two.  Who knows, perhaps books could be the next big thing?

Inspired by a conversation on twitter this morning.

23 comments:

  1. I absolutely agree! Funny-I am the same way..I won't buy "things" on demand-but books? Out of my four-only one likes reading..and I-I LOVE a good book...Sadly, our towns library is tiny...they want to build a new one but the funding isn't there. Much of the town doesn't want to pay more in taxes to fund a new one...*sigh* I'm lucky though as the next town over has a fabulous library-and the order books for you-via the internet-so only two visits required...

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    1. Hopefully the one who does love reading might encourage the others :)

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  2. I LOVE LIBRARIES! ... But I don't go half often enough and then every time I do I wonder why I go so seldom. My 4 year old loves our random visits there too. **Note to self-I really must go more often!!**

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    1. Sometimes it's hard to fit it in! And I meant to put in the post above that too many of our visits were cut short by children wailing "I need the loo!"

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  3. I LOVE LIBRARIES! ... But I don't go half often enough and then every time I do I wonder why I go so seldom. My 4 year old loves our random visits there too. **Note to self-I really must go more often!!**

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  4. I have the same problem as you. I'm complete Bool Worm and my children don 't show any real desire for reading. But as a child my mom tells me I didn't want to learn how to read. I found that love lafter. so, I hope at least Loris will find her love to read books. Wisiting the Trinity college Library was tile a dream. l almost fell on my knees...
    But we are lucky here where l live. Every town has it's own public library, some of them even more than one. Books are free to lend you just have to pay yearly membership and that is it. Some of them have coffee house near but not in the library. But your idea is interesting.
    I only wish to have more time for reading.

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  5. I go to the library regularly and I do borrow books. Mostly I like 'how to' books and I find the library is great for those because a lot of the time I get what I want out of the book without having to buy it or I find it's so good that I know I want to buy it. However, brining my children with me makes me exhausted. They love it but I can't browse while they're with me and I've had to stop them actually borrowing the books because of my constant embarrassment returning books that have been destroyed....but they're only 2 and 3!!!!

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    1. There is a great kiddie area there but they have located it right next to the automatic doors out to the road. My children just cannot resist making them open and running out as fast as they can. I think even in one year I'll find it easier....and I would definitely rather struggle on and support the library than not have it in the future.

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  6. We make a library trip at least once a week. Simply do not have the space to keep on buying books so the library is a brilliant alternative. I suppose we're lucky because ours is only 15 mins walk away, huge, full of great choices, offers alternatives like internet access, dvd rental, book rental for the ereader etc. NEVER have the time to attend the story telling though. LOL

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    1. Our local library is only 10 minutes walk away *hides* but it is rarely open and never seems to be open when I have the time to actually go!

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  7. I do visit the local library, they have the local papers for people to read. Also they have several computers that are free to use for members. It does put me off by how downright miserable some of the staff are though.

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    1. There's free wifi in some of the Dublin local libraries which was very handy when mine went down!

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  8. We go every week for storytime and while we're there we change books. But our local library is five minutes walk away so it would be silly not to go. Atm it's all my initiative obviously as DD is only 4. Who knows if she will inherit my love for books - I do everything you did but she is her own person at the end of the day.

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  9. We try to do the library as well. It never seems to work out. Too quiet for us I'm afraid!

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    1. Yes they are quiet, except when I brought my kids :)

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  10. I really like your idea of having a coffee nook and loo's at the library. I know that it would make a world of difference at our local library. Thanks for the reminder, I must take Nick back there for another visit ~ the last one must have been a year ago! My bad! :(

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  11. That's a very good idea. Some libraries have lots of public events though. I visit ours regularly. Alone. Or with Teen Boy waiting outside in the car! I too will spend money on books for him if he wants them but he rarely does. It saddens me that reading is not his thing. I'd let him download and read on iPad, if only he would....

    xx Jazzy

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    1. I've offered to download books too, and Santa brought him one for Christmas that he said he wanted, but it remains unopened... xx

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  12. Similar here; I spent years introducing books, going to libraries and reading to my kids. My eldes daughter is a book worm but my younger two have given up reading now. It worries me and I have no idea how to reengage them with reading. Its not like I haven't tried:(( Deb x

    PS my town's library is fab; it has a coffee bar, small theatre, a small touristy bit and community events. I love it there.

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